Last night I went out with some friends and we were talking about what actually constitutes "dating" someone and making it official and all of that.  We summed it up that one of my friends was actually dating about five guys and I was dating two, none of which are official, although one of mine is official now, pretty much.

At first I was worried about having to choose between the two.  It has become pretty clear which one is better for me though and which one I have more of a connection with and he's pretty open about sharing what he thinks with me as well.  Now I just have to tell the other one which is proving to be somewhat hard to do.

But anyway... my "secret" blog so I can talk about how great I think Geoff is.  He's very intelligent which put me off a little at first, but I've realized he isn't into having intelligent conversation all the time and I appreciate being able to talk to him more in depth at other times.  He reads, which I love, and it amazes me that if I mention a poem or a book, he'll start to read it, which is something that I do as well.  He is interested in me and my job, which is an important factor and I'm actually curious about him and what he does and what he likes, which is also important.  He doesn't bore me.  I can talk to him very easily and if I can't think of anything to say I'm okay with it.  There's a lot more, but I'm really liking him and I think he's a nice guy which is wonderful.  There's some giddiness with it all because my mind does shift towards the future and in looking for guys now, I do want to analyze whether or not it's someone I could envision myself with in the long-run, even if it's not to that point yet, and I could totally envision myself with him.